The Rules for Being Human

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.
2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a fulltime informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works."
4. A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive there are lessons to be learned.
6. "There" is no better than "here." When your "there" has become a "here" you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."
7. Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie inside you. The answer to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.
10. This will often be forgotten, only to be remembered again.

On Living With A Full Heart...

When one is too hurt one cannot see others' pain, is too blind with one's own.
When one has many weights to lift, one cannot enjoy life.
When one has many expectations, one cannot be patient with others.
When one has fear, one cannot enjoy life.
When one does not give, one is making the heart lonely.
When one does not take, one is making the heart feel inferior
When one does not hope, one is shutting oneself into a tight closet.
But when one does not love, one is killing one's self.

13 Incredibly Simple Ways to Overcome the Fear of Failure

1. Identify the Root Cause

“Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald

2. Simplify

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” — Leonardo da Vinci

3. Failure is Inevitable

“It is foolish to fear what you cannot avoid.” — Publius Syrus

4. Fail More. Succeed More.

“There is no failure. Only feedback.” — Robert Allen

5. Failure is Temporary

“Failure is an event, never a person.” — William D. Brown

6. Free Your Mind

“The mind is everything. What you think you become.” — Buddha

7. Shift Your Perspective

“Failure teaches success.” — Japanese Saying

8. Self Growth

“Supposing you have tried and failed again and again. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call “failure” is not the falling down, but the staying down.” — Mary Pickford

9. Embrace Fear

“We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face… we must do that which we think we cannot.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

10. Take Action

“I failed my way to success.” — Thomas Edison

11. Imagine Your Future

“What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?” — Vincent van Gogh

12. Stay in the Now

“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” – Buddha

13. Follow Your Passion

“No man is a failure who is enjoying life.” — William Feather

Mother Teresa quotes

"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway."

"Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love."

"I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much."

"Peace begins with a smile.."

"I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love."

"I am not sure exactly what heaven will be like, but I know that when we die and it comes time for God to judge us, he will not ask, 'How many good things have you done in your life?' rather he will ask, 'How much love did you put into what you did?"

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."

"Do not think that love in order to be genuine has to be extraordinary. What we need is to love without getting tired. Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies."

"Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing."

"The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread."

"Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin."

"It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving."

"Live simply so others may simply live."

"If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other."

"Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God's kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile."

"At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made, how many great things we have done.
We will be judged by "I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat, I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless, and you took me in."

"Never travel faster than your guardian angel can fly."

"God doesn't require us to succeed, he only requires that you try"

"What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family."

"The most terrible poverty is loneliness, and the feeling of being unloved."

"I'm a little pencil in the hand of a writing God, who is sending a love letter to the world."

"I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples."

"If you are humble nothing will touch you, neither praise nor disgrace, because you know what you are."

"A life not lived for others is not a life."

"Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal."

"We know only too well that what we are doing is nothing more than a drop in the ocean. But if the drop were not there, the ocean would be missing something."

"May today there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you. May you be content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every one of us." ..."

"I can do things you cannot, you can do things I cannot; together we can do great things."

"The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway."

"Let nothing perturb you, nothing frighten you. All things pass. God does not change. Patience achieves everything."

"Prayer is not asking. Prayer is putting oneself in the hands of God, at His disposition, and listening to His voice in the depth of our hearts."

"If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and true enemies; succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; be honest and frank anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; do good anyway…
You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway."

"If you can't feed a hundred people, feed just one."

"The person who gives with a smile is the best giver because God loves a cheerful giver."

"If we pray, we will believe; If we believe, we will love; If we love, we will serve."

"It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish."

"Spread the love of God through your life but only use words when necessary."

"Love to be real, it must cost—it must hurt—it must empty us of self."

"The greatest disease in the West today is not TB or leprosy; it is being unwanted, unloved, and uncared for. We can cure physical diseases with medicine, but the only cure for loneliness, despair, and hopelessness is love. There are many in the world who are dying for a piece of bread but there are many more dying for a little love. The poverty in the West is a different kind of poverty -- it is not only a poverty of loneliness but also of spirituality. There's a hunger for love, as there is a hunger for God."

"do not wait for leaders;do it alone, person to person."

"Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you."

"Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat."

"God made the world for the delight of human beings-- if we could see His goodness everywhere, His concern for us, His awareness of our needs: the phone call we've waited for, the ride we are offered, the letter in the mail, just the little things He does for us throughout the day. As we remember and notice His love for us, we just begin to fall in love with Him because He is so busy with us -- you just can't resist Him. I believe there's no such thing as luck in life, it's God's love, it's His."

"Each one of them is Jesus in disguise."

"Without patience, we will learn less in life. We will see less. We will feel less. We will hear less. Ironically, rush and more usually mean less."

"Peope are unrealistic; illogical, and self-centered. Love them anyway."

"Prayer in action is love, love in action is service."

"when you don't have anything, then you have everything."